tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5589141064157449530.post5481873402194864116..comments2023-04-19T13:24:08.734-07:00Comments on rainbows & earthquakes: In the MajorityKaren Leehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/15605284448010106227noreply@blogger.comBlogger2125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5589141064157449530.post-91474223293488288232010-07-27T10:04:29.242-07:002010-07-27T10:04:29.242-07:00Ahhh..perspective....it is a wonderful thing. I a...Ahhh..perspective....it is a wonderful thing. I am so glad you wrote this..because I have to tell myself all the time that I am one of the lucky ones...even when life is not going well or tragedy strikes. I just have to keep things in perspective...kdactylhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02123983421783902463noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5589141064157449530.post-30523525960071037152010-07-26T23:13:00.171-07:002010-07-26T23:13:00.171-07:00Yes...I would also say that grief is not required ...Yes...I would also say that grief is not required for these thoughts to pop in. I have also had them in good, happy, stress free times. For instance...when my husband and I were first dating...I would have break-up scenerios go through my mind. I am definetely one who has always hoped for the best...but prepared for the worst. And the worst was always prep'd for in my mind...before falling asleep. I would conjure up break up scenes that would even get me crying before I could snap out of it. <br /><br />Like I said for me it is a form of survival...living through the worst in my mind so that if it happens in reality I could survive it...eventually. <br /><br />I do have the real, bizarre, violent, thoughts too that sometimes scare me. Just like the other poster said...things that make me wonder why I would even think such a thing. Things I would never, never do for real...but yet my mind goes there...and I don't know why. These thoughts have featured me as the star of a horror film as the bad guy. Perhaps they are a release of anger or agression as the result of a really bad day. Not sure...but I'm glad I'm not alone.<br /><br />Thanks again...and I do think that these thoughts are normal. <br /><br />Tracy<br />'Angel' Graham's MommaAnonymousnoreply@blogger.com